Your "Want", "Should", and "Is"
I have always struggled to align my "want to be", "should be", and "is". I always saw this as a contest to align my wants with my shoulds. I always thought there was some way to change my id through force of will. Recently, I have come to the realization that I should focus more on the should and is. When making a decision, I should not do what I want to do, I should do what I should do. This may all sound like a bunch of nonsense, but what I'm trying to convey is an important life lesson. If you want to do what you should do, and you do what you should do, then your is, your want, and your should will coincide, which will bring on contentment.